"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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girl doesnt want to be picked up from home on date?

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VictorK

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Hey guys, Need small advice from DJs

I'm going out on a 2nd date with this girl (shes 25, lives alone), and she insists I pick her up from mall parking lot instead of her apartment. (she says it will be alot easier for me, then to go out of my way)

This girl is into me or there wouldn't have been a 2nd date. Is she just super shy or she still doesn't trust me enough to pick her up from her home?

thanks DJs
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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What's the big deal with where you pick her up, it's just the second date anyway! :rolleyes: If you want a chance of having a third date stop obsessing about silly sh1t!
 
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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
What's the big deal with where you pick her up, it's just the second date anyway! :rolleyes: If you want a chance of having a third date stop obsessing about silly sh1t!
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seriously.

She's prob just scared you might be a stalker type. Its hard to tell at first, better safe then sorry.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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