“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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girl doesnt want to be picked up from home on date?

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VictorK

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Hey guys, Need small advice from DJs

I'm going out on a 2nd date with this girl (shes 25, lives alone), and she insists I pick her up from mall parking lot instead of her apartment. (she says it will be alot easier for me, then to go out of my way)

This girl is into me or there wouldn't have been a 2nd date. Is she just super shy or she still doesn't trust me enough to pick her up from her home?

thanks DJs
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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What's the big deal with where you pick her up, it's just the second date anyway! :rolleyes: If you want a chance of having a third date stop obsessing about silly sh1t!
 
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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
What's the big deal with where you pick her up, it's just the second date anyway! :rolleyes: If you want a chance of having a third date stop obsessing about silly sh1t!
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seriously.

She's prob just scared you might be a stalker type. Its hard to tell at first, better safe then sorry.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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