"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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girl doesnt want to be picked up from home on date?

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Hey guys, Need small advice from DJs

I'm going out on a 2nd date with this girl (shes 25, lives alone), and she insists I pick her up from mall parking lot instead of her apartment. (she says it will be alot easier for me, then to go out of my way)

This girl is into me or there wouldn't have been a 2nd date. Is she just super shy or she still doesn't trust me enough to pick her up from her home?

thanks DJs
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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What's the big deal with where you pick her up, it's just the second date anyway! :rolleyes: If you want a chance of having a third date stop obsessing about silly sh1t!
 
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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
What's the big deal with where you pick her up, it's just the second date anyway! :rolleyes: If you want a chance of having a third date stop obsessing about silly sh1t!
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seriously.

She's prob just scared you might be a stalker type. Its hard to tell at first, better safe then sorry.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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