I took a girl out on a date on friday, went to grab an early dinner and then went shopping (for me) anyways I noticed on facebook, that she and her roommates had a keg party on saturday, i find it strange that she didn't tell me about it, seeing as I asked what she was doing this weekend and she failed to mention about hosting a keg party. Am I over analyzing the situation or is this a sign that shes just not interested?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Girl Doesnt Invite me to a party
- Thread starter mtlwlu
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Scars
Master Don Juan
Her interest is low, or she she is still "window shopping". It doesn't mean the-end, you just got to work on raising her interest. Don't even mention the party. Keep spitting your game, tease her, get her feeling good around you and keep that confident frame. Start spinning some other plates to keep your head on straight, she'll be back if you do it right, then you'll get invited to everything.
You need to give more info. How long have you been dating her and how well do you think you know her? What did she tell you she was doing when you asked? Was she making out with random guys in the photos and that is why you feel so upset over something that sounds like nothing?
You hung out with her on Friday, so why would you want to see her again on Saturday? Remember you are suppose to have a lot of good things going on in your life and you can't always drop what you are doing to be with her anyways.
You hung out with her on Friday, so why would you want to see her again on Saturday? Remember you are suppose to have a lot of good things going on in your life and you can't always drop what you are doing to be with her anyways.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
BigWillyStyle
Banned
Obviously if she were keen on you, she would've invited you to the kegger. Lose this bird and start finding chicks that'll invite you to their keggers.