I took a girl out on a date on friday, went to grab an early dinner and then went shopping (for me) anyways I noticed on facebook, that she and her roommates had a keg party on saturday, i find it strange that she didn't tell me about it, seeing as I asked what she was doing this weekend and she failed to mention about hosting a keg party. Am I over analyzing the situation or is this a sign that shes just not interested?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Girl Doesnt Invite me to a party
- Thread starter mtlwlu
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Scars
Master Don Juan
Her interest is low, or she she is still "window shopping". It doesn't mean the-end, you just got to work on raising her interest. Don't even mention the party. Keep spitting your game, tease her, get her feeling good around you and keep that confident frame. Start spinning some other plates to keep your head on straight, she'll be back if you do it right, then you'll get invited to everything.
You need to give more info. How long have you been dating her and how well do you think you know her? What did she tell you she was doing when you asked? Was she making out with random guys in the photos and that is why you feel so upset over something that sounds like nothing?
You hung out with her on Friday, so why would you want to see her again on Saturday? Remember you are suppose to have a lot of good things going on in your life and you can't always drop what you are doing to be with her anyways.
You hung out with her on Friday, so why would you want to see her again on Saturday? Remember you are suppose to have a lot of good things going on in your life and you can't always drop what you are doing to be with her anyways.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
BigWillyStyle
Banned
Obviously if she were keen on you, she would've invited you to the kegger. Lose this bird and start finding chicks that'll invite you to their keggers.