I took a girl out on a date on friday, went to grab an early dinner and then went shopping (for me) anyways I noticed on facebook, that she and her roommates had a keg party on saturday, i find it strange that she didn't tell me about it, seeing as I asked what she was doing this weekend and she failed to mention about hosting a keg party. Am I over analyzing the situation or is this a sign that shes just not interested?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Girl Doesnt Invite me to a party
- Thread starter mtlwlu
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Scars
Master Don Juan
Her interest is low, or she she is still "window shopping". It doesn't mean the-end, you just got to work on raising her interest. Don't even mention the party. Keep spitting your game, tease her, get her feeling good around you and keep that confident frame. Start spinning some other plates to keep your head on straight, she'll be back if you do it right, then you'll get invited to everything.
You need to give more info. How long have you been dating her and how well do you think you know her? What did she tell you she was doing when you asked? Was she making out with random guys in the photos and that is why you feel so upset over something that sounds like nothing?
You hung out with her on Friday, so why would you want to see her again on Saturday? Remember you are suppose to have a lot of good things going on in your life and you can't always drop what you are doing to be with her anyways.
You hung out with her on Friday, so why would you want to see her again on Saturday? Remember you are suppose to have a lot of good things going on in your life and you can't always drop what you are doing to be with her anyways.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
BigWillyStyle
Banned
Obviously if she were keen on you, she would've invited you to the kegger. Lose this bird and start finding chicks that'll invite you to their keggers.