"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girl Doesnt Invite me to a party

mtlwlu

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I took a girl out on a date on friday, went to grab an early dinner and then went shopping (for me) anyways I noticed on facebook, that she and her roommates had a keg party on saturday, i find it strange that she didn't tell me about it, seeing as I asked what she was doing this weekend and she failed to mention about hosting a keg party. Am I over analyzing the situation or is this a sign that shes just not interested?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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synergy1

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i read this and think back to my old days. Bitter sweet, but mostly the bitter part.

sorry bro, she passed you up. Time to move on.
 

mtlwlu

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totally what i was thinking. not going to bother with her anymore. Im thankful I have the confidence and courage to do this now, id be totally devastated if this was 2 years ago lol.
 

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Her interest is low, or she she is still "window shopping". It doesn't mean the-end, you just got to work on raising her interest. Don't even mention the party. Keep spitting your game, tease her, get her feeling good around you and keep that confident frame. Start spinning some other plates to keep your head on straight, she'll be back if you do it right, then you'll get invited to everything.
 

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You need to give more info. How long have you been dating her and how well do you think you know her? What did she tell you she was doing when you asked? Was she making out with random guys in the photos and that is why you feel so upset over something that sounds like nothing?

You hung out with her on Friday, so why would you want to see her again on Saturday? Remember you are suppose to have a lot of good things going on in your life and you can't always drop what you are doing to be with her anyways.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Scars said:
Her interest is low, or she she is still "window shopping". It doesn't mean the-end, you just got to work on raising her interest. Don't even mention the party. Keep spitting your game, tease her, get her feeling good around you and keep that confident frame. Start spinning some other plates to keep your head on straight, she'll be back if you do it right, then you'll get invited to everything.
great advice.

you never know if she had other plans with another guy that night. Don't take it personally. And quit facebook stalking. Just keep going from where you left off.
 

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Obviously if she were keen on you, she would've invited you to the kegger. Lose this bird and start finding chicks that'll invite you to their keggers.
 
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