"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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rain63

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So i got a girls number and waited a few days to text her. Went like this

me: "hey, you gonna be up for a run tomorrow"

her: "whos this"

me: "oh, lol, its (my name)"

then nothing....

should i try again or just give up? should i have given her my # when she gave me hers?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Axcell

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Haha, you should have called her first.
By texting her, you gave her the power to CHOOSE whether she wants to reply back to you or not. By giving her the power, you have made her the prize.

Do NOT send another text to her, you will look desperate.
Instead, wait a week or so, and try calling her. Her not replying back is a sign on not being interested.

How well did you end the conversation before you talked to her? If you developed enough rapport with her and left her wanting more before you left, she should have been rushing to reply back to your text after you told her who you were...
 
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After you do the approach ... you build the comfort ect.
You do it step by step, till you make it and close the set. but after you leave the set you know what you did, and only you KNOW how much do you have to wait to call her ( or text her ). Because in some occasions if you wait for even a day you lose you girl.
If the girl is so IN and she is sooo attracted on you, YOU CAN WAIT A WEEK AND SHE WON"T FORGET WHO YOU ARE :D
 
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you should go on sosuave and make a post about a girl not texting you back

next time, if you're going to be texting someone that you know doesnt have your #, you should add a little
"-(your name here)" to the end of it

what were you thinking?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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rain63 said:
her: "whos this"
me: "oh, lol, its (my name)"
Click to expand...
There is your problem.

Try again in a week, because you're busy doing cool ****.
 
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