"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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rain63

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So i got a girls number and waited a few days to text her. Went like this

me: "hey, you gonna be up for a run tomorrow"

her: "whos this"

me: "oh, lol, its (my name)"

then nothing....

should i try again or just give up? should i have given her my # when she gave me hers?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Axcell

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Haha, you should have called her first.
By texting her, you gave her the power to CHOOSE whether she wants to reply back to you or not. By giving her the power, you have made her the prize.

Do NOT send another text to her, you will look desperate.
Instead, wait a week or so, and try calling her. Her not replying back is a sign on not being interested.

How well did you end the conversation before you talked to her? If you developed enough rapport with her and left her wanting more before you left, she should have been rushing to reply back to your text after you told her who you were...
 
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After you do the approach ... you build the comfort ect.
You do it step by step, till you make it and close the set. but after you leave the set you know what you did, and only you KNOW how much do you have to wait to call her ( or text her ). Because in some occasions if you wait for even a day you lose you girl.
If the girl is so IN and she is sooo attracted on you, YOU CAN WAIT A WEEK AND SHE WON"T FORGET WHO YOU ARE :D
 
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Kev07

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you should go on sosuave and make a post about a girl not texting you back

next time, if you're going to be texting someone that you know doesnt have your #, you should add a little
"-(your name here)" to the end of it

what were you thinking?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Rhoto

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rain63 said:
her: "whos this"
me: "oh, lol, its (my name)"
Click to expand...
There is your problem.

Try again in a week, because you're busy doing cool ****.
 
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