"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

Girl didn't text back

R

rain63

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 20, 2008
Messages
42
Reaction score
1
So i got a girls number and waited a few days to text her. Went like this

me: "hey, you gonna be up for a run tomorrow"

her: "whos this"

me: "oh, lol, its (my name)"

then nothing....

should i try again or just give up? should i have given her my # when she gave me hers?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

A

Axcell

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 12, 2007
Messages
519
Reaction score
6
Haha, you should have called her first.
By texting her, you gave her the power to CHOOSE whether she wants to reply back to you or not. By giving her the power, you have made her the prize.

Do NOT send another text to her, you will look desperate.
Instead, wait a week or so, and try calling her. Her not replying back is a sign on not being interested.

How well did you end the conversation before you talked to her? If you developed enough rapport with her and left her wanting more before you left, she should have been rushing to reply back to your text after you told her who you were...
 
M

macking

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 4, 2008
Messages
63
Reaction score
1
After you do the approach ... you build the comfort ect.
You do it step by step, till you make it and close the set. but after you leave the set you know what you did, and only you KNOW how much do you have to wait to call her ( or text her ). Because in some occasions if you wait for even a day you lose you girl.
If the girl is so IN and she is sooo attracted on you, YOU CAN WAIT A WEEK AND SHE WON"T FORGET WHO YOU ARE :D
 
K

Kev07

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 2, 2006
Messages
1,706
Reaction score
9
Location
Bay Area, California, Currently in SoCal (UCR)
you should go on sosuave and make a post about a girl not texting you back

next time, if you're going to be texting someone that you know doesnt have your #, you should add a little
"-(your name here)" to the end of it

what were you thinking?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

R

Rhoto

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 20, 2007
Messages
782
Reaction score
18
Location
San Francisco
rain63 said:
her: "whos this"
me: "oh, lol, its (my name)"
Click to expand...
There is your problem.

Try again in a week, because you're busy doing cool ****.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top