"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girl Didnt Put Out

drmeathead

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so i told her to call a cab and went to bed? Thoughts?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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umm....depends on the context of the situation. Have you known her for awhile? Is this a first date? Did you find her on the street 2 hours before??
 

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the first two times i took her home she put out. this time she "didnt want to". she asked me to stop so i did. she put out the first two times i took her home from the bar so i figured we all knew what the score was when i took her home this time. so she "didnt want to" so i let her sleep on the couch. she still "didnt want to" so i told her i "didnt want to" give her a ride home and she should call a cab. i went back in my room till she was gone.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Ever consider that her Aunt Flo was visiting?
 

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yeah i did. i also considered that my uncle didnt want to drive her ass around was in town. hahaha
 

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hahahaha this thread just made me literally laugh out loud. just thought i'd share that. haha "i also considered that my uncle didnt want to drive her ass around was in town." classic.
 

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You could have always covered up the upholstery with a towel y'know. :p
 

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Well, maybe she was on her period. Simple as that.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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drmeathead

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maybe she was maybe she wasnt. either was she was under no obligations to do anything. neither was i.
 

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Hop in the shower, and the blood stops flowin'....Good times says my crimson wings...
 

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ALDARIS RULE #7

if you weren't the first you won't be the last. this means that she was taking it up the kazoo earlier in the day by one of your buddies.
 
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