"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Girl complains about me with store

escaleraroyal

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I saw a girl in the store and I went up to her and said Hi, hows it going?, she replied good. I introduced myself, My name is Luis, what is your name? she replied. Small chit chat continued and she had to go. I let her go. I walk around the store and the man who works there comes and ask what is my name? he said he wants to talk to me one on one. We stepped out. He says his costumer was complaining about me (I'm also a customer I grabbed a drink) approaching her. I asked what did I do wrong, he says "I didn't say you did anything wrong". He says again the customer was complaining that I approached her. I asked what did I do or did I say to her that she is complaining about?, The worker says "I don't know", he says he just wants to informed me that she complained about me because I approached her. I said "anything else?" he says "no" and I left.

I seriously don't know what is wrong with some girls and the funny thing is some girls complain about guys don't approach them.

Do you have any bad experience like this when you cold approach? or got into trouble?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You should have responded something like this - 'oh I'm sure she did, that's an old aquitance of mine from college days, she went ballistic one day, trashed class room, attacked teacher, and then wanted to jump off 5th floor, I stopped her. She spend some time in mental institution. Just said hello to her, asked her how she's doing.'
 

escaleraroyal

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its cuz u not hot for her, orhe got what she said wrong. try on the street so this wont happen
I don't know about that. How do you proof I was not hot enough for her. It doesn't make sense to me a girl would complain about someone for not being hot enough LOL
 

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You should have responded something like this - 'oh I'm sure she did, that's an old aquitance of mine from college days, she went ballistic one day, trashed class room, attacked teacher, and then wanted to jump off 5th floor, I stopped her. She spend some time in mental institution. Just said hello to her, asked her how she's doing.'
I don't think lying will help much. Maybe it works for you but I try to avoid being a liar.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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My response:
" I thought she was cute so I approached her like any straight man with some balls would have. Its called a cold approach. Let me guide you in the right direction with this website called SoSuave.........Oh and if you ask me anymore questions I will process this as you harassing one of your customers. Now where did she go so I can grab those digits on my way out of your shyte store?"
 

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I don't know about that. How do you proof I was not hot enough for her. It doesn't make sense to me a girl would complain about someone for not being hot enough LOL
She would be approaching you if you were hot or making crazy obvious IOis. You dont sound like a Chad or Chadlite to get a reaction like that. Most likely a newie for this to bother you to write about it. Is this the first cold approach that you have ever done?
 
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