"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girl complains about me with store

escaleraroyal

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I saw a girl in the store and I went up to her and said Hi, hows it going?, she replied good. I introduced myself, My name is Luis, what is your name? she replied. Small chit chat continued and she had to go. I let her go. I walk around the store and the man who works there comes and ask what is my name? he said he wants to talk to me one on one. We stepped out. He says his costumer was complaining about me (I'm also a customer I grabbed a drink) approaching her. I asked what did I do wrong, he says "I didn't say you did anything wrong". He says again the customer was complaining that I approached her. I asked what did I do or did I say to her that she is complaining about?, The worker says "I don't know", he says he just wants to informed me that she complained about me because I approached her. I said "anything else?" he says "no" and I left.

I seriously don't know what is wrong with some girls and the funny thing is some girls complain about guys don't approach them.

Do you have any bad experience like this when you cold approach? or got into trouble?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You should have responded something like this - 'oh I'm sure she did, that's an old aquitance of mine from college days, she went ballistic one day, trashed class room, attacked teacher, and then wanted to jump off 5th floor, I stopped her. She spend some time in mental institution. Just said hello to her, asked her how she's doing.'
 

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its cuz u not hot for her, orhe got what she said wrong. try on the street so this wont happen
I don't know about that. How do you proof I was not hot enough for her. It doesn't make sense to me a girl would complain about someone for not being hot enough LOL
 

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You should have responded something like this - 'oh I'm sure she did, that's an old aquitance of mine from college days, she went ballistic one day, trashed class room, attacked teacher, and then wanted to jump off 5th floor, I stopped her. She spend some time in mental institution. Just said hello to her, asked her how she's doing.'
I don't think lying will help much. Maybe it works for you but I try to avoid being a liar.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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My response:
" I thought she was cute so I approached her like any straight man with some balls would have. Its called a cold approach. Let me guide you in the right direction with this website called SoSuave.........Oh and if you ask me anymore questions I will process this as you harassing one of your customers. Now where did she go so I can grab those digits on my way out of your shyte store?"
 

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I don't know about that. How do you proof I was not hot enough for her. It doesn't make sense to me a girl would complain about someone for not being hot enough LOL
She would be approaching you if you were hot or making crazy obvious IOis. You dont sound like a Chad or Chadlite to get a reaction like that. Most likely a newie for this to bother you to write about it. Is this the first cold approach that you have ever done?
 
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