“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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girl coming out of a LTR....

sav

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there's this girl that i fooled around with when she was in her LTR, she broke up with her BF a little while ago... do i go for it? or let the dust settle, let her have her rebounds and then go for it...

she knows i like her... obviously she likes me.. dunno how much now though but that can be always fixed ;)

so what do you guys think? should i just let her come to me if thats what she really wants?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I certainly will wait. If she likes you, she'll alway let you bang her even if she finds a new BF.
 

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Let's see... she's available, she was interested in you while she had a man, she seems interested in you now, and... what was your question? Ah yes, should you wait for her to do something you can't really put your finger on?

I'll put it to you this way: go for it. Your question is just an excuse to make a move.
 

sav

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i think she's interested in somebody else, which makes me not want to make a move... we might continue being "friends" if you know what i mean, but i dont think she's ready to settle down, and she knows full well that im looking for something longterm and not short lived.. besides i dont want to be her rebound...
 

tryin 2 play

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well if your looking for something long term and serious then i doubt she is a good candidate. She cehated on her boyfriend with you...what makes you think she wont do the same to you if your her boyfriend? keep her as an fb if anything.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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