"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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girl coming out of a LTR....

sav

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there's this girl that i fooled around with when she was in her LTR, she broke up with her BF a little while ago... do i go for it? or let the dust settle, let her have her rebounds and then go for it...

she knows i like her... obviously she likes me.. dunno how much now though but that can be always fixed ;)

so what do you guys think? should i just let her come to me if thats what she really wants?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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amoka

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I certainly will wait. If she likes you, she'll alway let you bang her even if she finds a new BF.
 

kyphan

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Let's see... she's available, she was interested in you while she had a man, she seems interested in you now, and... what was your question? Ah yes, should you wait for her to do something you can't really put your finger on?

I'll put it to you this way: go for it. Your question is just an excuse to make a move.
 

sav

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i think she's interested in somebody else, which makes me not want to make a move... we might continue being "friends" if you know what i mean, but i dont think she's ready to settle down, and she knows full well that im looking for something longterm and not short lived.. besides i dont want to be her rebound...
 

tryin 2 play

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well if your looking for something long term and serious then i doubt she is a good candidate. She cehated on her boyfriend with you...what makes you think she wont do the same to you if your her boyfriend? keep her as an fb if anything.
 

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