"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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girl coming out of a LTR....

sav

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there's this girl that i fooled around with when she was in her LTR, she broke up with her BF a little while ago... do i go for it? or let the dust settle, let her have her rebounds and then go for it...

she knows i like her... obviously she likes me.. dunno how much now though but that can be always fixed ;)

so what do you guys think? should i just let her come to me if thats what she really wants?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I certainly will wait. If she likes you, she'll alway let you bang her even if she finds a new BF.
 

kyphan

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Let's see... she's available, she was interested in you while she had a man, she seems interested in you now, and... what was your question? Ah yes, should you wait for her to do something you can't really put your finger on?

I'll put it to you this way: go for it. Your question is just an excuse to make a move.
 

sav

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i think she's interested in somebody else, which makes me not want to make a move... we might continue being "friends" if you know what i mean, but i dont think she's ready to settle down, and she knows full well that im looking for something longterm and not short lived.. besides i dont want to be her rebound...
 

tryin 2 play

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well if your looking for something long term and serious then i doubt she is a good candidate. She cehated on her boyfriend with you...what makes you think she wont do the same to you if your her boyfriend? keep her as an fb if anything.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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