"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girl claims she has an orgasm but I feel no contraction down there in her vagina..

pvf94

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is this possible? I thought the vagina squeezes/tightens/contracts when she has an orgasm. yet I don't feel it, and she swears up and down that she gets off.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Teflon_Mcgee

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Plain and simple, you might feel it or you might not. Doesn't mean she's not orgasming.
 

iliketennis

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oh man do not talk about that with the chick.. you will kill any chance of her ever getting off anyway
 

scorpio1138

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yeah and don't be concerned about "making sure" she has one.

as considerate as it may seem, they are put off by hearing that.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

OamImrsNemo

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Please for your penis sake.

Read the "Sex God Method". It will greatly improve both your sexual mentality and how much you get it.
 

SandHawk

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OamImrsNemo said:
Please for your penis sake.

Read the "Sex God Method". It will greatly improve both your sexual mentality and how much you get it.
What this man said. Go read the damn book, and you never have to worry about that again.

To be on-topic: I've had girls orgasm while eating them out with fingers in them, and there were cases where I couldn't feel the contractions, while in other cases I could. The female orgasm is much more complex and intense than male orgasms, so don't worry about it. If she feels the need to fake an orgasm, why bother checking if she did indeed have one? She's fooling herself more than she is fooling you.
 

CuriousGirl

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SandHawk said:
What this man said. Go read the damn book, and you never have to worry about that again.

To be on-topic: I've had girls orgasm while eating them out with fingers in them, and there were cases where I couldn't feel the contractions, while in other cases I could. The female orgasm is much more complex and intense than male orgasms, so don't worry about it. If she feels the need to fake an orgasm, why bother checking if she did indeed have one? She's fooling herself more than she is fooling you.
I agree with this. Also OP, girls can contract their vaginal muscles consciously, so just because they are squeezing doesn't mean we're orgasming. Although it is usual for muscle contractions, sometimes the muscles spasm sometimes they don't (particularly with ****-only stimulation) the orgasms feel different and like they're coming from different places. There are different kinds of orgasms - or at least that's how it feels.
Also if you think a girl is faking it, you're better off either stopping or asking her to direct/guide you.
 
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