"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Girl claims she has an orgasm but I feel no contraction down there in her vagina..
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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as considerate as it may seem, they are put off by hearing that.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
OamImrsNemo
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Read the "Sex God Method". It will greatly improve both your sexual mentality and how much you get it.
SandHawk
Master Don Juan
What this man said. Go read the damn book, and you never have to worry about that again.OamImrsNemo said:Please for your penis sake.
Read the "Sex God Method". It will greatly improve both your sexual mentality and how much you get it.
To be on-topic: I've had girls orgasm while eating them out with fingers in them, and there were cases where I couldn't feel the contractions, while in other cases I could. The female orgasm is much more complex and intense than male orgasms, so don't worry about it. If she feels the need to fake an orgasm, why bother checking if she did indeed have one? She's fooling herself more than she is fooling you.
CuriousGirl
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I agree with this. Also OP, girls can contract their vaginal muscles consciously, so just because they are squeezing doesn't mean we're orgasming. Although it is usual for muscle contractions, sometimes the muscles spasm sometimes they don't (particularly with ****-only stimulation) the orgasms feel different and like they're coming from different places. There are different kinds of orgasms - or at least that's how it feels.SandHawk said:What this man said. Go read the damn book, and you never have to worry about that again.
To be on-topic: I've had girls orgasm while eating them out with fingers in them, and there were cases where I couldn't feel the contractions, while in other cases I could. The female orgasm is much more complex and intense than male orgasms, so don't worry about it. If she feels the need to fake an orgasm, why bother checking if she did indeed have one? She's fooling herself more than she is fooling you.
Also if you think a girl is faking it, you're better off either stopping or asking her to direct/guide you.