"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Girl calls me wanting to hang out.

Zaraza

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Here is the situation,

Her and I were friends a long time ago, a year. We didnt talk to each other for a long time because she had a bf, and i completely didnt think of her lol. So she got a new phone, and i was going through my phone book and textin all my friends who i havnt in a while (to see what everyone is doing). She texts me back with, "Hey! Im glad you texted me i didnt have your number". Next thing i know we are going out for sushi, movie, played videogames lol, went jogging. just things that get her out of her house.

2 weeks later, she texts me "i broke up with (myBF), it was my choice"......<---- im starting to think wtf.

I didnt really care to much...

we ended up meeting up for a run, ( i wanted some fresh air and just to relax from all the stress in life).

Few days back i get a phone call. "Hey i want us to hang out, dont remember if you had today free, if you do we should do something"....


SOoooo... here i am, lol. She is cute, what do you guys think?

if it matters, she asked me how many girls ive been with,

I replied with "How dare you think i'm a Man*****:)"
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Zaraza

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what are some active things we can do? I was thinkin do something like Go up to a mountain or a waterfall (im into that cuz its relaxin). Was lookin into go carts (fun kid stuff), what I think we should do is just come over to my place :up:
 

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Zaraza said:
Her and I were friends a long time ago, a year. We didnt talk to each other for a long time because she had a bf, and i completely didnt think of her lol. So she got a new phone, and i was going through my phone book and textin all my friends who i havnt in a while (to see what everyone is doing). She texts me back with, "Hey! Im glad you texted me i didnt have your number". Next thing i know we are going out for sushi, movie, played videogames lol, went jogging. just things that get her out of her house.

2 weeks later, she texts me "i broke up with (myBF), it was my choice"......<---- im starting to think wtf.

I didnt really care to much...

we ended up meeting up for a run, ( i wanted some fresh air and just to relax from all the stress in life).

Few days back i get a phone call. "Hey i want us to hang out, dont remember if you had today free, if you do we should do something"....


SOoooo... here i am, lol. She is cute, what do you guys think?

if it matters, she asked me how many girls ive been with,

I replied with "How dare you think i'm a Man*****:)"
What are you asking us for? She's serving it to you on a silver plate. You should be sleeping with her now instead of typing your question.
 

Zaraza

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Dont realy kno why i posted it, just wanted opinions.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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