"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Girl calls me wanting to hang out.

Zaraza

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Here is the situation,

Her and I were friends a long time ago, a year. We didnt talk to each other for a long time because she had a bf, and i completely didnt think of her lol. So she got a new phone, and i was going through my phone book and textin all my friends who i havnt in a while (to see what everyone is doing). She texts me back with, "Hey! Im glad you texted me i didnt have your number". Next thing i know we are going out for sushi, movie, played videogames lol, went jogging. just things that get her out of her house.

2 weeks later, she texts me "i broke up with (myBF), it was my choice"......<---- im starting to think wtf.

I didnt really care to much...

we ended up meeting up for a run, ( i wanted some fresh air and just to relax from all the stress in life).

Few days back i get a phone call. "Hey i want us to hang out, dont remember if you had today free, if you do we should do something"....


SOoooo... here i am, lol. She is cute, what do you guys think?

if it matters, she asked me how many girls ive been with,

I replied with "How dare you think i'm a Man*****:)"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Zaraza

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what are some active things we can do? I was thinkin do something like Go up to a mountain or a waterfall (im into that cuz its relaxin). Was lookin into go carts (fun kid stuff), what I think we should do is just come over to my place :up:
 

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Zaraza said:
Her and I were friends a long time ago, a year. We didnt talk to each other for a long time because she had a bf, and i completely didnt think of her lol. So she got a new phone, and i was going through my phone book and textin all my friends who i havnt in a while (to see what everyone is doing). She texts me back with, "Hey! Im glad you texted me i didnt have your number". Next thing i know we are going out for sushi, movie, played videogames lol, went jogging. just things that get her out of her house.

2 weeks later, she texts me "i broke up with (myBF), it was my choice"......<---- im starting to think wtf.

I didnt really care to much...

we ended up meeting up for a run, ( i wanted some fresh air and just to relax from all the stress in life).

Few days back i get a phone call. "Hey i want us to hang out, dont remember if you had today free, if you do we should do something"....


SOoooo... here i am, lol. She is cute, what do you guys think?

if it matters, she asked me how many girls ive been with,

I replied with "How dare you think i'm a Man*****:)"
What are you asking us for? She's serving it to you on a silver plate. You should be sleeping with her now instead of typing your question.
 

Zaraza

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Dont realy kno why i posted it, just wanted opinions.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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