"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girl calls me wanting to hang out.

Zaraza

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Here is the situation,

Her and I were friends a long time ago, a year. We didnt talk to each other for a long time because she had a bf, and i completely didnt think of her lol. So she got a new phone, and i was going through my phone book and textin all my friends who i havnt in a while (to see what everyone is doing). She texts me back with, "Hey! Im glad you texted me i didnt have your number". Next thing i know we are going out for sushi, movie, played videogames lol, went jogging. just things that get her out of her house.

2 weeks later, she texts me "i broke up with (myBF), it was my choice"......<---- im starting to think wtf.

I didnt really care to much...

we ended up meeting up for a run, ( i wanted some fresh air and just to relax from all the stress in life).

Few days back i get a phone call. "Hey i want us to hang out, dont remember if you had today free, if you do we should do something"....


SOoooo... here i am, lol. She is cute, what do you guys think?

if it matters, she asked me how many girls ive been with,

I replied with "How dare you think i'm a Man*****:)"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Zaraza

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what are some active things we can do? I was thinkin do something like Go up to a mountain or a waterfall (im into that cuz its relaxin). Was lookin into go carts (fun kid stuff), what I think we should do is just come over to my place :up:
 

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Zaraza said:
Her and I were friends a long time ago, a year. We didnt talk to each other for a long time because she had a bf, and i completely didnt think of her lol. So she got a new phone, and i was going through my phone book and textin all my friends who i havnt in a while (to see what everyone is doing). She texts me back with, "Hey! Im glad you texted me i didnt have your number". Next thing i know we are going out for sushi, movie, played videogames lol, went jogging. just things that get her out of her house.

2 weeks later, she texts me "i broke up with (myBF), it was my choice"......<---- im starting to think wtf.

I didnt really care to much...

we ended up meeting up for a run, ( i wanted some fresh air and just to relax from all the stress in life).

Few days back i get a phone call. "Hey i want us to hang out, dont remember if you had today free, if you do we should do something"....


SOoooo... here i am, lol. She is cute, what do you guys think?

if it matters, she asked me how many girls ive been with,

I replied with "How dare you think i'm a Man*****:)"
What are you asking us for? She's serving it to you on a silver plate. You should be sleeping with her now instead of typing your question.
 

Zaraza

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Dont realy kno why i posted it, just wanted opinions.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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