"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Girl called me Ted Bundy at the bar

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lol, this chick calls him Ted Bundy and then he leans over to his target and whispers in her ear before taking a whiff of her hair.

Too funny.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Ted Bundy was on to something, feel like you want to kill them and rape them and torture them to ultimately bed them!!! classic!! just stop after foreplay and your alright :)
 
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I think the OP's reaction was the best out of anything else posted here. Some of the suggested responses were just plain lame.

OP's retort was quite simply witty and fresh. Not canned, not lame, and not p!ssy or emotional.

Good job OP, but it was kind of creepy that you smelled her hair. Unless that was part of the joke.

I also think that Jariel is giving awesome advice here. It IS creepy to randomly and excessively just approach, approach, approach. You may snag one here and there but I doubt you'll be catching anything of value. I don't know if that is what the OP was doing in this case, he may have just walked into a Queen B's lair, but his response was awesome in any case.
 
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iqqi said:
I think the OP's reaction was the best out of anything else posted here. Some of the suggested responses were just plain lame.

OP's retort was quite simply witty and fresh. Not canned, not lame, and not p!ssy or emotional.

Good job OP, but it was kind of creepy that you smelled her hair. Unless that was part of the joke.

I also think that Jariel is giving awesome advice here. It IS creepy to randomly and excessively just approach, approach, approach. You may snag one here and there but I doubt you'll be catching anything of value. I don't know if that is what the OP was doing in this case, he may have just walked into a Queen B's lair, but his response was awesome in any case.
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Are you trying to tell us you've never been banged by a guy who approached you? Maybe one you didnt find attractive at first?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I would have probably pretended like I didn't know who Ted Bundy was, then when she explained I would bust on her for being a creepy person who is obsessed with serial killers
 
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Turn to her friend(s) and say, "Why I don't worry about being called creepy? Because SHE Has No Idea, my past, what I've conquered, what I've endured, the pain I've fought through, to win and flourish comfortably today. I wasn't given a dime, no charity ever came my way, mrs. daddy's girl. You're just a mix of criss-crossed battered worthless thoughts, ho. You couldn't fathom the difficulties that any given man has to go through to get ahead in this world, so whatever you think, whatever comes out of your mouth is pretty damn near worthless (Even If...it's something complimentary towards me, your perceptions are Still wrong, because you have no internal guide no Strong reference point of integrity to let you know for sure if you're right or wrong). You need a Man to carry you in the right way, but you refuse to accept that right direction; therefore, you will be utterly lost, for a lifetime, until you change. If you knew what's best for you, you'd bow down and worship my feet, right now here in this bar." And when she does it, everybody (even the other women there) will be watching.
 
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Aaron B said:
I would have probably pretended like I didn't know who Ted Bundy was, then when she explained I would bust on her for being a creepy person who is obsessed with serial killers
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I had heard the name Ted Bundy before but couldn't tell you much about him until I googled him after reading this thread. I mean who the fvck keeps up with serial killers from the 70's? either she was old as fvck or she spends too much time googling psycho's. maybe she has a thing for those types. I was 8 years old when he got fried, so yeah can't say I know much about him or really gave a sh!t about him. i surely didn't know he drove a VW bug for christ sakes. I guess I'm weird for keeping up with news TODAY and not giving a piss about what happened in the 70's/early 80's.
 
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Robert28 said:
I had heard the name Ted Bundy before but couldn't tell you much about him until I googled him after reading this thread. I mean who the fvck keeps up with serial killers from the 70's? either she was old as fvck or she spends too much time googling psycho's. maybe she has a thing for those types. I was 8 years old when he got fried, so yeah can't say I know much about him or really gave a sh!t about him. i surely didn't know he drove a VW bug for christ sakes. I guess I'm weird for keeping up with news TODAY and not giving a piss about what happened in the 70's/early 80's.
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That was my other thought. Your typical bar girl is too young to even know who Ted Bundy was. Hell, most are too young to know who Al Bundy was LOL.
 
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That was my other thought. Your typical bar girl is too young to even know who Ted Bundy was. Hell, most are too young to know who Al Bundy was LOL.
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:crackup: Hahaha! Thanks for the laugh my friend!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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you should have said "whatever Casey Anthony".haha
 
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