Master Don Juan
- Jan 4, 2012
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one of my favorites is to turn to their friend and ask "Do you have a pair of nail clippers by any chance? SOMEONE needs their claws trimmed..."
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Real men aren't worried about what other people think, and they are not hurt in the slightest when some bytch at the BAR calls him creepy.Jariel said:That interpretation of a "real" man just sounds like something you just made up.
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Honestly horaholic if any c*nt-rag wh*re gave me that kind of attitude I would have called her ass out, told her to not flatter herself and I wouldn't touch her skanky ass with a ten foot pole and walked off.horaholic said:A couple weeks ago, I kept catching some chick glancing at me at the bar. Then... She ran up to me and asked why the fvck I was staring at her, total bytchlike. Checking her out, guilty. Staring... NO! Unfortunately, I wasnt as smooth as the OP afterwards, but I DID try. Later, I sat down next to her and asked her why she was making bullshyt accusations when she was the one who was obviously checking me out all night. Didnt go over too well, but I also didnt care. I just had all my friends (guys and girls) stare at her for the rest of the night. It was pretty funny, but it didnt get me any tail.
Fvcking A!!! And this is the issue I have with most of the posters on here who think such behaviour should be met with a witty but friendly quip in reply. No!!!! Do what sstype did and call them a cvnt. Really, props for this man. The truth is if a girl pulled this sh*t on me and I could get away with it, I would knock her ass out.sstype said:Honestly horaholic if any c*nt-rag wh*re gave me that kind of attitude I would have called her ass out, told her how to not flatter herself and I wouldn't touch her skanky ass with a ten foot pole and walked off.
I don't care if she was deep down attracted to me. It's not cute and I'd rather go home with my **** in hand than give some c*nt like the satisfaction that her sh*tty behavior is acceptable.
I remember a few weeks back I was talking to some girl at a bar and this tall strawberry blonde with her two friends moved into my space and literally shoved me out of the way. I firmly grabbed her torso and turned her around and said "excuse me am I in your way?" She replied with the b*tchiest tone "Not anymore you're not" I called here a f*cking c*nt in front of her friends and turned back to talk to my girl. Her and her friends didn't say sh*t back to me, in fact the b*tch and her friends had the courtesy to say excuse me in the nicest way possible when they walked past me again.
No way in hell was I going to try and "game" her like most guys would have done, and yeah she was a very attractive woman but disrespect me and she can be Miss Universe for all I care, im chewing her ass out.
The most important thing to me is respecting myself by not letting others disrespect me, I'm not going to waste my time with women that act like spoiled little ch*ldren because no one has the balls to put them in their place.
Seriously guys, stop trying to play verbal gymnastics with these f*cking b*tches in the hope that you will uncover some sweet little nympho. They are rotten to the core and should be treated as such. I'm all for us guys getting laid and having fun, but we should demand a little respect along the way don't you think?
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what site do you think youre posting on? ohhh he INTERRUPTED THEM??? OMGZ!!!! he cant control how girls can react to him all he can control is whether or not he will approach and do his best with what hes got. its called taking a chance, and you seem to be advocating against it.Jariel said:I just think a lot of PUAs need to do some self reflection. It's great having the confidence to approach a bunch of chicks like that and I give him props, but is that confidence based on delusion? For most PUAs it is.
Now a lot of you are jumping to the conclusion that the chick was in the wrong, but for one, it was just a playful insult. It wasn't as if she called his mom a slvt or anything. Secondly, he just went over and interrupted them. Why should they pander to him? Besides, he was probably one of many overconfident guys who approached them that night and they're probably annoyed with it.
As for this "not caring what others think" attitude, there's being carefree and cool, but then there's being delusional and thinking you're right about everything and it's everyone else that is wrong. The latter won't get you very far at all.
I get laid a lot and I have women approach me, chase me, text/email me all the time. I can hook up with a HB6-8 any night I choose and I even get the odd HB9 - models, fitness instructors, dancers etc. I never cold approach.pipe007 said:If i had ur beliefs i wouldny try ... it would be a sad boring life
Well this board is split on this issue. Some believe that PUA tactics and cold approaching are the way to go, others believe in the self improvement route and get those chicks to chase you.oxford comma said:what site do you think youre posting on? ohhh he INTERRUPTED THEM??? OMGZ!!!! he cant control how girls can react to him all he can control is whether or not he will approach and do his best with what hes got. its called taking a chance, and you seem to be advocating against it.
Stir up Waters to Catch Fish
Anger and emotion are strategically counterproductive. You must always stay calm and objective. But if you can make your enemies angry while staying calm yourself, you gain a decided advantage. Put your enemies off-balance: Find the chink in their vanity through which you can rattle them and you hold the strings.
Lulz were had. +1oxford comma said:i wouldve said "actually, im more like al bundy".
True. But also they can't hide the simplest IOI of them all: the smile. If you smile at a girl and and she finds you physically attractive, she will smile back. It's physically-programmed into ourselves.Mike32ct said:IME, women will NOT give IOIs or approach invitations unless you are VERY good looking. They won't approach you unless you're hot (or have some status thing going like bartender or disc jockey).
can you explain what you mean by getting chics to chase you? I've heard that said on this board a lot and I don't get it at all.Jariel said:I get laid a lot and I have women approach me, chase me, text/email me all the time. I can hook up with a HB6-8 any night I choose and I even get the odd HB9 - models, fitness instructors, dancers etc. I never cold approach.
The reason I can do this is because I've listened to advice, criticism, calibrated my game based on how people react to me and I have used all this to improve myself and become a man of value rather than a man of delusion. That's my point.
This guy could look at this situation (like many of you are) and accuse the girls of being b!tches and whine how hard done to he is, or he could take a step back and ask himself why he got such a reaction and why he didn't get some that night.
The fact that she called him out on his bullsh!t tells me he was acting full of himself, in which case he would do well from learning a bit of charisma and acting a touch more modest.
Well this board is split on this issue. Some believe that PUA tactics and cold approaching are the way to go, others believe in the self improvement route and get those chicks to chase you.
I have never been an advocate of cold approaching. It seems creepy and desperate just lurking around alone and approaching women. If a woman is giving you signals across the room, eye contact, a smile etc, then by all means get over there. Otherwise, you have no right to complain if you're rejected or ignored.
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Exactly! I came to this board at an all time low in my life. No social skills, serious anxiety disorder and panic attacks, severe low self esteem, I was skinny and weak, a pushover, my image was safe and a bit geeky, but bit by bit I have examined all my flaws and worked on improving them. I've listened to what people have said to me, even those who insulted or rejected me. Actually the rejections and insults have been my biggest source of motivation overall and I've used the pain of those to drive me.Social_Leper said:I think he means improving yourself to the point where women will actively pursue you instead of the other way round. For some this might mean working on their physical appearance (I firmly believe anyone ft or over has the potential to be in the elite band of physical attractiveness if they dedicate enough time to their body). For others it will mean focusing on your career aspirations, passions and finances.
It's about doing what it takes to build a life so awesome, women can't help but take notice.
Well, firstly thanks for the compliment, but I haven't always been good looking. I put a lot of work into my image, my grooming and my body. I believe that most guys have the potential to be hot. Granted, I have decent features and I'm tall, but women didn't behave this way towards me until I got myself in shape and started dressing well.Mike32ct said:I understand what you're saying Jariel. I like 99% of your game advice, and there is no question that you've made very significant improvements to your game. But you are a hot guy (no homo), so you will be in a different reality than most guys.