"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Girl called me a ***** because I wouldn't ask her out..

Grimple

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Heh, so there is this girl that likes me. I kind of like her too, I guess. We flirt A LOT, in one of my periods. And sometimes during lunch etc.. like holding hands, and massively cuddling etc.. everyone thinks we're going out. But we're not.. she brings it up almost like everyday. The only thing is, I don't feel like having a gf right now.. I haven't told her this. I didn't want to piss her off, or to jepordize anything, so I just kind of ignore it. But today, she called me a *****, and was giving me hints like crazy. And ahg, now I'm just confused about it all. At first I wanted to go out with her, but then I changed my mind. Now I kinda do, but I'm not sure. All I want right now is some fun, I don't think I need a relationship.. but idk. Just the fact she called me a ***** today irratates me. It got to me.

Now, even if I did ask her out... i would still look like a *****. Because then it would look like I waited so long to muster up the balls.. and also the fact that tomorrow is our last day at school.. hehehe, what a ***** thing to do is ask someone out before break. I guess most would say "better late, than never" but then again, I'm not even sure. and this girl is pressuring me like crazy

what would a dj do?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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WC2

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Trust me, if you don't want a relationship now, you're not going to want it any more when you get into it. If your mind is telling you that you want to be single, then it's obviously not the right girl.

Move on, stay in touch with the girl, but open up other options
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Phyzzle

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The difference being, don't ask her to be your girlfriend. Just say, there's this cafe/restaurant/park/place that she'd like, and she should go along with you this Thursday or something. Don't mention anything about relationships, let her decide all that.
 

Thomas94305

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Hey.. if you ask her out, do it because YOU want to, not because SHE wants you to. If YOU don't want to ask her out, without embarassment, say "no thanks". You don't owe her an explanation of why.
 
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