"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Girl borrows Wine opener how to proceed...

nmartinez12443

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Alright my neighbor in an apartment came over and borrowed my wine opener for a wine party with her and her 5 gfs and I wanna go ahead and get that number.

Should I say, "How did the wine party...............(help)

How should i go about this? HELP{
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Alle_Gory

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If you can't think on your feet, there's nothing here anyone can do. We can't transplant wit into your head.

Get out there and socialize. It will come naturally.

No more of this he said, she said, what do I say bullsh*t.


Talk to people, get comfortable, show them a good time and enjoy yourself while doing nothing but chatting with them. That's how you can figure out what to say to this girl.
 

Desert Fox

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I can give a man a fish and feed him for a day, or I can teach him how to fish and feed him for a lifetime.

I can help you out right now and help your once, or I can tell you to go wing it after coming up with stuff on your own and help you for a lifetime.

1. Ask how it went
2. Joke about how next time she needs it she has to give you some wine at least
3. If she says ok suggest her coming over next time your'e throwing a party (I hope you are capable of that and have friends)
4. Exchange phone numbers because you need to contact her somehow, maybe joke about how your too old to be running up and down the stairs all day (unless you are really in your 50s or some ****)

Its called conversatino man. Dont' treat it as a pick - up. Treat it as a convo. If you can't have a convo, then you need serious help that cannot be found here.
 
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