"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Girl borrows Wine opener how to proceed...

nmartinez12443

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Alright my neighbor in an apartment came over and borrowed my wine opener for a wine party with her and her 5 gfs and I wanna go ahead and get that number.

Should I say, "How did the wine party...............(help)

How should i go about this? HELP{
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Alle_Gory

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If you can't think on your feet, there's nothing here anyone can do. We can't transplant wit into your head.

Get out there and socialize. It will come naturally.

No more of this he said, she said, what do I say bullsh*t.


Talk to people, get comfortable, show them a good time and enjoy yourself while doing nothing but chatting with them. That's how you can figure out what to say to this girl.
 

Desert Fox

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I can give a man a fish and feed him for a day, or I can teach him how to fish and feed him for a lifetime.

I can help you out right now and help your once, or I can tell you to go wing it after coming up with stuff on your own and help you for a lifetime.

1. Ask how it went
2. Joke about how next time she needs it she has to give you some wine at least
3. If she says ok suggest her coming over next time your'e throwing a party (I hope you are capable of that and have friends)
4. Exchange phone numbers because you need to contact her somehow, maybe joke about how your too old to be running up and down the stairs all day (unless you are really in your 50s or some ****)

Its called conversatino man. Dont' treat it as a pick - up. Treat it as a convo. If you can't have a convo, then you need serious help that cannot be found here.
 
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