"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girl borrows Wine opener how to proceed...

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nmartinez12443

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Alright my neighbor in an apartment came over and borrowed my wine opener for a wine party with her and her 5 gfs and I wanna go ahead and get that number.

Should I say, "How did the wine party...............(help)

How should i go about this? HELP{
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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If you can't think on your feet, there's nothing here anyone can do. We can't transplant wit into your head.

Get out there and socialize. It will come naturally.

No more of this he said, she said, what do I say bullsh*t.


Talk to people, get comfortable, show them a good time and enjoy yourself while doing nothing but chatting with them. That's how you can figure out what to say to this girl.
 
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I can give a man a fish and feed him for a day, or I can teach him how to fish and feed him for a lifetime.

I can help you out right now and help your once, or I can tell you to go wing it after coming up with stuff on your own and help you for a lifetime.

1. Ask how it went
2. Joke about how next time she needs it she has to give you some wine at least
3. If she says ok suggest her coming over next time your'e throwing a party (I hope you are capable of that and have friends)
4. Exchange phone numbers because you need to contact her somehow, maybe joke about how your too old to be running up and down the stairs all day (unless you are really in your 50s or some ****)

Its called conversatino man. Dont' treat it as a pick - up. Treat it as a convo. If you can't have a convo, then you need serious help that cannot be found here.
 
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