"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Girl Blows Me Out But Keeps Reapproaching Me

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So, I opened this hot Latina spinner a couple weekends ago.

It probably wasn't the most polite way of approaching her: I said "why do you come to this bar all the time?" I was really ****ing drunk and my filter was turned completely off--and it's usually not on even when I'm sober.

She didn't take it very well, and shouted "No!" So I stopped talking to her lol.

But of course, she is a regular at this particular place and I see her again last night, and she keeps "bumping into me" coincidentally. At the bar, near the restroom, at closing.

She's usually part of a mixed group: nice looking people, not thuggish.

I am really reluctant to reapproach her after this 'harsh' blowout but I guess I have to get back into the breach since she keeps reapproaching me.

The point is, the window of opportunity varies from one situation to the next. A girl may not be 'ready' the first time, but may be open the next or third time. You never know. Stay open to possibilities.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Or maybe she is waiting for you to hit on her so she can say “No” again and tell her friends that this dude is always hitting on me and I keep rejecting him, makes the ego feel good. I would let her approach you, ignore and hit on other bishes preferably hotter ones. She will come crawling.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I don't claim to fvck every single girl I approach or every single girl who approaches me though. That's just naive and unrealistic.
 
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