Girl Blows Me Out But Keeps Reapproaching Me

[ALnotAI]

So, I opened this hot Latina spinner a couple weekends ago.

It probably wasn't the most polite way of approaching her: I said "why do you come to this bar all the time?" I was really ****ing drunk and my filter was turned completely off--and it's usually not on even when I'm sober.

She didn't take it very well, and shouted "No!" So I stopped talking to her lol.

But of course, she is a regular at this particular place and I see her again last night, and she keeps "bumping into me" coincidentally. At the bar, near the restroom, at closing.

She's usually part of a mixed group: nice looking people, not thuggish.

I am really reluctant to reapproach her after this 'harsh' blowout but I guess I have to get back into the breach since she keeps reapproaching me.

The point is, the window of opportunity varies from one situation to the next. A girl may not be 'ready' the first time, but may be open the next or third time. You never know. Stay open to possibilities.

 

[Mazer]

Or maybe she is waiting for you to hit on her so she can say “No” again and tell her friends that this dude is always hitting on me and I keep rejecting him, makes the ego feel good. I would let her approach you, ignore and hit on other bishes preferably hotter ones. She will come crawling.

 

[ALnotAI]

I have a lot of women approaching me already so I definitely don't need this one. It just struck me as curious.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I have a lot of women approaching me already so I definitely don't need this one. It just struck me as curious.

Dont worry about unless she's begging to come to you.

 

[ALnotAI]

She's kinda already begging by approaching me so often lol

 

[mrgoodstuff]

She's kinda already begging by approaching me so often lol

It's not good enough if your not fvcking

 

[ALnotAI]

I don't claim to fvck every single girl I approach or every single girl who approaches me though. That's just naive and unrealistic.