girl blatantly trying to make you jealous

[piday314]

Have you ever had a girl show extremely strong IOI, but you don't reciprocate, and she reacts by using other men to try and make you blatantly jealous?

Of course, I know she still wants me first and foremost. My instinct is to just not react. I think it's semi-flattering and stupidly childish.

But how have you reacted to situations like this in the past to ultimately get what you wanted from the lady?

 

[JLW]

Simply do not react. You still want to make sure you make a move in the end (if you are in fact interested)

 

[Packers2010]

if you stop reacting, then she will stop playing this game

 

[Golopopik]

thanks for the info guys. it'll really help me.

 

[skinnyguy]

Well I'm doing the same thing to a girl right now.

There's this chick at work who I really like (let's call her Jessica), but she made it clear that she only wants to be "friends". Today I'm going to bring a gift wrapped present to this other girl at work who I'm not interested in. I can't wait to see Jessica's face when I give that girl the present. She's going to be eating my shyt by the end of the day. Women are so simple minded.

 

[5string]

Indifference brother. Act like it's no big deal. Then she'll come a runnin for you dripping wet.

Works most every time.

 

[PlayHer Man]

Well I'm doing the same thing to a girl right now.

There's this chick at work who I really like (let's call her Jessica), but she made it clear that she only wants to be "friends". Today I'm going to bring a gift wrapped present to this other girl at work who I'm not interested in. I can't wait to see Jessica's face when I give that girl the present. She's going to be eating my shyt by the end of the day. Women are so simple minded.

You don't make women wet by acting like one. :crackup: :crackup:

Right now you sound like a 15-year-old girl with too much time on her hands. Come on dude. Spin plates and move on with life. Don't pedestalize women by playing power games with them. There is no game.. YOU are a man and she is a woman. Either she will follow your lead OR you will find someone who will. Simple as that.

if you stop reacting, then she will stop playing this game

You win 100% of head games by not lowering yourself enough to play them. Games are for women and kids. Live your life, spin plates and be a dominant happy man. If woman try to manipulate you.. laugh at them and keep doing your thing. If they want your d!ck they'll jump on it sooner or later. :yes:

 

[Uncharted]

This has happened to me before. A girl that I think was interested in me flirted with her ex in front of me at a party. We are all in the same social circle and it was a party of about 60 people.

I promptly walked over to a girl I never met and introduced myself, flirted for a while, and got her number.

The first girl found out about it and flipped out. She never tried that again. It didn't work out though she was crazy.

 

[Atom Smasher]

A symptom of BPD, although not a definite indicator in your case. Keep it in ind.

 

[Cremasta]

Have you ever had a girl show extremely strong IOI, but you don't reciprocate, and she reacts by using other men to try and make you blatantly jealous?

Of course, I know she still wants me first and foremost. My instinct is to just not react. I think it's semi-flattering and stupidly childish.

But how have you reacted to situations like this in the past to ultimately get what you wanted from the lady?

I'm confused here. What exactly is it that you want from this girl?

If you want sex or a relationship, she's already interested why don't you turn on the charm and start reciprocating?
If you want her to just go away, then ignore her completely.