"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Girl attracted to you, but not over an ex?

C

Commissar

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 31, 2008
Messages
13
Reaction score
0
What do I do? This girl is attracted to me and likes me, but she feels like she can't get over her ex and wont give anyone new a chance.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

T

The Nice Guy is Gone

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 26, 2005
Messages
325
Reaction score
3
It's her decision to lose out on you--NEXT. Attraction does not equal good times.
 
K

KontrollerX

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 11, 2005
Messages
4,476
Reaction score
182
Well if you give her a relationship you will only be the rebound guy that she will leave you for later once her emotions settle or the ex takes her back whichever comes first.

So you should get the idea of having a genuine relationship with this one out of your mind.

However if you are up for a fun fling go for that and just tell this girl what she wants to hear.

Put your own personal time limit on the interaction though and be sure to end it when your time limit you have given runs out for the relationship.

With any luck she will transfer the longing for her ex boyfriend over to you and you can put all this misplaced emotion of her's to good use by periodically using her for sexual favors.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top