"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girl attracted to you, but not over an ex?

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What do I do? This girl is attracted to me and likes me, but she feels like she can't get over her ex and wont give anyone new a chance.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Nice Guy is Gone

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It's her decision to lose out on you--NEXT. Attraction does not equal good times.
 

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Well if you give her a relationship you will only be the rebound guy that she will leave you for later once her emotions settle or the ex takes her back whichever comes first.

So you should get the idea of having a genuine relationship with this one out of your mind.

However if you are up for a fun fling go for that and just tell this girl what she wants to hear.

Put your own personal time limit on the interaction though and be sure to end it when your time limit you have given runs out for the relationship.

With any luck she will transfer the longing for her ex boyfriend over to you and you can put all this misplaced emotion of her's to good use by periodically using her for sexual favors.
 
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