"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Girl attracted to you, but not over an ex?

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What do I do? This girl is attracted to me and likes me, but she feels like she can't get over her ex and wont give anyone new a chance.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Nice Guy is Gone

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It's her decision to lose out on you--NEXT. Attraction does not equal good times.
 

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Well if you give her a relationship you will only be the rebound guy that she will leave you for later once her emotions settle or the ex takes her back whichever comes first.

So you should get the idea of having a genuine relationship with this one out of your mind.

However if you are up for a fun fling go for that and just tell this girl what she wants to hear.

Put your own personal time limit on the interaction though and be sure to end it when your time limit you have given runs out for the relationship.

With any luck she will transfer the longing for her ex boyfriend over to you and you can put all this misplaced emotion of her's to good use by periodically using her for sexual favors.
 
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