"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ok so there is this other girl at work who i have been flirting with. i know she has a BF but it is a long distance relationship since he lives like 7 hours away. She flirts with me everytime i see her, today she found out i was leaving for another job and at first was all joking saying "Aww your quitting?? i so happy now!" and then later says to me..."hey ken, why dont you try keeping 2 jobs?..." i told her i have to see how the schedule is...

Before all this crap i probably would have gone AFC and said **** that other job and stay there with her... but now im like **** it...the other job pays more.

you guys think shes into me even though she has a BF? How should i approach her to ask her out without REALLY having to ask her out straight up and get the "i have a boyfriend" line again?...you think when she says "I have a BF" i should say "really? where does he live?" she says "L.A." then i say "long distance relationship eh?...hes probably cheating on you anyways so you wanna go out sometime??" ....anyways...you guys think thats C&F?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by Ken785
ok so there is this other girl at work who i have been flirting with. i know she has a BF but it is a long distance relationship since he lives like 7 hours away.
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might as well be single, right now i have a FB with a fioncee in the navy 2 states down

i told her i have to see how the schedule is...
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bad move. quit the job so she has to go out with you to see you.

you guys think shes into me even though she has a BF? How should i approach her to ask her out without REALLY having to ask her out straight up and get the "i have a boyfriend" line again?
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if she gives you that line again shes probably not interested in a romantic relationship.
...you think when she says "I have a BF" i should say "really? where does he live?" she says "L.A." then i say "long distance relationship eh?...hes probably cheating on you anyways so you wanna go out sometime??" ....anyways...you guys think thats C&F?
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sounds more like fishing for jealousy, could work, might get you slapped
 
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