"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ok so there is this other girl at work who i have been flirting with. i know she has a BF but it is a long distance relationship since he lives like 7 hours away. She flirts with me everytime i see her, today she found out i was leaving for another job and at first was all joking saying "Aww your quitting?? i so happy now!" and then later says to me..."hey ken, why dont you try keeping 2 jobs?..." i told her i have to see how the schedule is...

Before all this crap i probably would have gone AFC and said **** that other job and stay there with her... but now im like **** it...the other job pays more.

you guys think shes into me even though she has a BF? How should i approach her to ask her out without REALLY having to ask her out straight up and get the "i have a boyfriend" line again?...you think when she says "I have a BF" i should say "really? where does he live?" she says "L.A." then i say "long distance relationship eh?...hes probably cheating on you anyways so you wanna go out sometime??" ....anyways...you guys think thats C&F?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by Ken785
ok so there is this other girl at work who i have been flirting with. i know she has a BF but it is a long distance relationship since he lives like 7 hours away.
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might as well be single, right now i have a FB with a fioncee in the navy 2 states down

i told her i have to see how the schedule is...
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bad move. quit the job so she has to go out with you to see you.

you guys think shes into me even though she has a BF? How should i approach her to ask her out without REALLY having to ask her out straight up and get the "i have a boyfriend" line again?
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if she gives you that line again shes probably not interested in a romantic relationship.
...you think when she says "I have a BF" i should say "really? where does he live?" she says "L.A." then i say "long distance relationship eh?...hes probably cheating on you anyways so you wanna go out sometime??" ....anyways...you guys think thats C&F?
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sounds more like fishing for jealousy, could work, might get you slapped
 
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