"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Girl at work with BF wants it finally

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donjuan332

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well ive been working with this girl for a couple months and shes been playing that to cool thing with me everytime i try and game her(even just casual talk she plays it) . well i told someone at work i thought she was cute and it got back to her and now shes all flirty and the whole deal now. how to i finish this off? shes got a bf shes lives with so is it even worth my time?he picks her up everynight ect.. tips??
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Deadly_Ripped

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If she's got a live-in boyfriend then I would assume she's doing it because she's an attention *****, and she thinks that it'll be fun to make you drool over her.

What's the worst that could happen, though, if you made a move? If she's being flirty, you could take that as a sign that she's interested and invite her to do something just the two of you or in a small group of people. If the only time that you ever see her is at work, and she won't do stuff outside of work with you, then don't bother.
 
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horaholic

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Just because chicks flirt with you, does not mean they are really interested. It only means they find you fun, and/or attractive. You work with her, and she has a live in BF. Do yourself a favor and slap yourself upside the head for even considering this chick an option. She likes the attention, thats all. Hell, everyone does. When I have a GF, I have 'flirt-friends' I would go for if I were single.
 
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