"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Girl at work with BF wants it finally

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donjuan332

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well ive been working with this girl for a couple months and shes been playing that to cool thing with me everytime i try and game her(even just casual talk she plays it) . well i told someone at work i thought she was cute and it got back to her and now shes all flirty and the whole deal now. how to i finish this off? shes got a bf shes lives with so is it even worth my time?he picks her up everynight ect.. tips??
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Deadly_Ripped

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If she's got a live-in boyfriend then I would assume she's doing it because she's an attention *****, and she thinks that it'll be fun to make you drool over her.

What's the worst that could happen, though, if you made a move? If she's being flirty, you could take that as a sign that she's interested and invite her to do something just the two of you or in a small group of people. If the only time that you ever see her is at work, and she won't do stuff outside of work with you, then don't bother.
 
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horaholic

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Just because chicks flirt with you, does not mean they are really interested. It only means they find you fun, and/or attractive. You work with her, and she has a live in BF. Do yourself a favor and slap yourself upside the head for even considering this chick an option. She likes the attention, thats all. Hell, everyone does. When I have a GF, I have 'flirt-friends' I would go for if I were single.
 
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