"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Girl at work. missed chance?

Moneytalks

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I broke up with my girlfriend last night. Remember that.

I work at a top-class restaurant as a waiter. Yesterday was my 2nd shift.

I've been doing the gash jobs like cleaning and what not and I was told to fill up the water heater. I used a hosepipe :cool:.

Anyway, it takes about 7 minutes and I was just thinking about my morning run for today so not really paying attention to a lot around me. As I was filling the tank, the youngest, female chef (trainee, I think. She looks about 18) walked past and said "my, what a big pipe you've got!". Due to being in my own little world all I said was "Yeah" and then realised what she said. :down:

Later on, the sous chef kept saying "i think you've go an admirer down there :up: "

Another chef shouted "He's got a girlfriend!". :cry:

Anyway, is there a way to possibly recover from that? :crazy:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Analyzeit

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Yeah just flirt it'll come up and conversation and you can say u dont have a gf and get a number lol don't know what ya promblem is lol I mean hell you gotta let old gfs go ukno even thou thats not a problem i think
 

Moneytalks

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It's not the problem. I just don't really know a lot about the girl...Mainly.
 

MisterMcGee

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Moneytalks said:
It's not the problem. I just don't really know a lot about the girl...Mainly.
Then become friends with her. Talk to her and go out with her friends.

:nono:
 

Moneytalks

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MisterMcGee said:
Then become friends with her. Talk to her and go out with her friends.

:nono:
I know it seems ridiculous, but I was with my girlfriend for over a year. Totally out of the game!

Also, because of the type of restaurant it is, many of the chefs travel 2+ hours to get to work. So "going out with her friends" might not be a possibility :down:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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