"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girl at work. missed chance?

Moneytalks

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I broke up with my girlfriend last night. Remember that.

I work at a top-class restaurant as a waiter. Yesterday was my 2nd shift.

I've been doing the gash jobs like cleaning and what not and I was told to fill up the water heater. I used a hosepipe :cool:.

Anyway, it takes about 7 minutes and I was just thinking about my morning run for today so not really paying attention to a lot around me. As I was filling the tank, the youngest, female chef (trainee, I think. She looks about 18) walked past and said "my, what a big pipe you've got!". Due to being in my own little world all I said was "Yeah" and then realised what she said. :down:

Later on, the sous chef kept saying "i think you've go an admirer down there :up: "

Another chef shouted "He's got a girlfriend!". :cry:

Anyway, is there a way to possibly recover from that? :crazy:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Analyzeit

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Yeah just flirt it'll come up and conversation and you can say u dont have a gf and get a number lol don't know what ya promblem is lol I mean hell you gotta let old gfs go ukno even thou thats not a problem i think
 

Moneytalks

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It's not the problem. I just don't really know a lot about the girl...Mainly.
 

MisterMcGee

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Moneytalks said:
It's not the problem. I just don't really know a lot about the girl...Mainly.
Then become friends with her. Talk to her and go out with her friends.

:nono:
 

Moneytalks

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MisterMcGee said:
Then become friends with her. Talk to her and go out with her friends.

:nono:
I know it seems ridiculous, but I was with my girlfriend for over a year. Totally out of the game!

Also, because of the type of restaurant it is, many of the chefs travel 2+ hours to get to work. So "going out with her friends" might not be a possibility :down:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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