"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girl at work. missed chance?

Moneytalks

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I broke up with my girlfriend last night. Remember that.

I work at a top-class restaurant as a waiter. Yesterday was my 2nd shift.

I've been doing the gash jobs like cleaning and what not and I was told to fill up the water heater. I used a hosepipe :cool:.

Anyway, it takes about 7 minutes and I was just thinking about my morning run for today so not really paying attention to a lot around me. As I was filling the tank, the youngest, female chef (trainee, I think. She looks about 18) walked past and said "my, what a big pipe you've got!". Due to being in my own little world all I said was "Yeah" and then realised what she said. :down:

Later on, the sous chef kept saying "i think you've go an admirer down there :up: "

Another chef shouted "He's got a girlfriend!". :cry:

Anyway, is there a way to possibly recover from that? :crazy:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Analyzeit

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Yeah just flirt it'll come up and conversation and you can say u dont have a gf and get a number lol don't know what ya promblem is lol I mean hell you gotta let old gfs go ukno even thou thats not a problem i think
 

Moneytalks

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It's not the problem. I just don't really know a lot about the girl...Mainly.
 

MisterMcGee

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Moneytalks said:
It's not the problem. I just don't really know a lot about the girl...Mainly.
Then become friends with her. Talk to her and go out with her friends.

:nono:
 

Moneytalks

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MisterMcGee said:
Then become friends with her. Talk to her and go out with her friends.

:nono:
I know it seems ridiculous, but I was with my girlfriend for over a year. Totally out of the game!

Also, because of the type of restaurant it is, many of the chefs travel 2+ hours to get to work. So "going out with her friends" might not be a possibility :down:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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