"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Girl at work is driving me mad (in a good and bad way). Help?

Sgthaytham

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So there's this girl I work with 2-3 times a week. She's really attractive and completely up my street in terms of looks and personality, but, because we work together, I don't want to make a move or make it obvious I like her.

I've got a good idea that she likes me back too, which is making the situation that little worse.

She constantly tries talking to me (sometimes when I'm speaking to customers), ask me questions and will go out of her way to come stand quite close to me.

It's really hard because I do like her, but I know I shouldn't do anything about it.

The good news is I'm handing my notice on Thursday morning because I'm moving to another country... but I see her another 2 times before then...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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I suspect you've never had a job in your life, or haven't held one for quite some time...
I have. Got with a chick about a month and a half in over here. Everyone knew about it too, I just knew how to play it off. My boss is also pretty cool too though so there’s also that, but I just know how to handle situations. Completely broke her heart. She just played herself though, wasn’t me doing anything.
 

Sgthaytham

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I have. Got with a chick about a month and a half in over here. Everyone knew about it too, I just knew how to play it off. My boss is also pretty cool too though so there’s also that, but I just know how to handle situations. Completely broke her heart. She just played herself though, wasn’t me doing anything.
You legend.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Stallionstud

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I have. Got with a chick about a month and a half in over here. Everyone knew about it too.
I second this. Stop being afraid in life. Go after what you want if you’re confident. I can go to any company that does my kind of work anywhere in the country and get hired immediately. And have. If there’s fine pu$$y around I notice.
 

devilkingx2

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It's really hard because I do like her, but I know I shouldn't do anything about it.
bang her anyway unless your job is actually important, if you're low level and making 5 figures who cares?
 
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