"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girl at work is driving me mad (in a good and bad way). Help?

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So there's this girl I work with 2-3 times a week. She's really attractive and completely up my street in terms of looks and personality, but, because we work together, I don't want to make a move or make it obvious I like her.

I've got a good idea that she likes me back too, which is making the situation that little worse.

She constantly tries talking to me (sometimes when I'm speaking to customers), ask me questions and will go out of her way to come stand quite close to me.

It's really hard because I do like her, but I know I shouldn't do anything about it.

The good news is I'm handing my notice on Thursday morning because I'm moving to another country... but I see her another 2 times before then...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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Sgthaytham said:
I suspect you've never had a job in your life, or haven't held one for quite some time...
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I have. Got with a chick about a month and a half in over here. Everyone knew about it too, I just knew how to play it off. My boss is also pretty cool too though so there’s also that, but I just know how to handle situations. Completely broke her heart. She just played herself though, wasn’t me doing anything.
 
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ImTheDoubleGreatest! said:
I have. Got with a chick about a month and a half in over here. Everyone knew about it too, I just knew how to play it off. My boss is also pretty cool too though so there’s also that, but I just know how to handle situations. Completely broke her heart. She just played herself though, wasn’t me doing anything.
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You legend.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ImTheDoubleGreatest! said:
I have. Got with a chick about a month and a half in over here. Everyone knew about it too.
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I second this. Stop being afraid in life. Go after what you want if you’re confident. I can go to any company that does my kind of work anywhere in the country and get hired immediately. And have. If there’s fine pu$$y around I notice.
 
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Sgthaytham said:
It's really hard because I do like her, but I know I shouldn't do anything about it.
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bang her anyway unless your job is actually important, if you're low level and making 5 figures who cares?
 
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