“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Girl at work is driving me mad (in a good and bad way). Help?

Sgthaytham

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So there's this girl I work with 2-3 times a week. She's really attractive and completely up my street in terms of looks and personality, but, because we work together, I don't want to make a move or make it obvious I like her.

I've got a good idea that she likes me back too, which is making the situation that little worse.

She constantly tries talking to me (sometimes when I'm speaking to customers), ask me questions and will go out of her way to come stand quite close to me.

It's really hard because I do like her, but I know I shouldn't do anything about it.

The good news is I'm handing my notice on Thursday morning because I'm moving to another country... but I see her another 2 times before then...
 

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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I suspect you've never had a job in your life, or haven't held one for quite some time...
I have. Got with a chick about a month and a half in over here. Everyone knew about it too, I just knew how to play it off. My boss is also pretty cool too though so there’s also that, but I just know how to handle situations. Completely broke her heart. She just played herself though, wasn’t me doing anything.
 

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I have. Got with a chick about a month and a half in over here. Everyone knew about it too, I just knew how to play it off. My boss is also pretty cool too though so there’s also that, but I just know how to handle situations. Completely broke her heart. She just played herself though, wasn’t me doing anything.
You legend.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I have. Got with a chick about a month and a half in over here. Everyone knew about it too.
I second this. Stop being afraid in life. Go after what you want if you’re confident. I can go to any company that does my kind of work anywhere in the country and get hired immediately. And have. If there’s fine pu$$y around I notice.
 

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It's really hard because I do like her, but I know I shouldn't do anything about it.
bang her anyway unless your job is actually important, if you're low level and making 5 figures who cares?
 
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