Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Girl at work is a sure thing...but I'm not so sure

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So there's girl at work who i've been flirting with. Went out last friday and made out although we didn't bang.

Thing is she is now making overt signs. We work together late shifts and tonight she even asked me to come her way home rather than mine.

She's tall (5'9), slim with great legs and she's okay looking. Sometimes I look at her she's pretty hot, sometimes not - that kind of girl.

Thing is, I'm gaming another girl at work who is playing hard to get and is kind of more challenging. Also she can be a bit whiny and i'm afraid she might be the clingy type. So i'm not sure. I told her she can come to my place tomorrow night before heading home.

i've tried telling i'm not the kind of guy she should be interested in, that she should find someone better. that i'm broken etc but if anything that seems to make her want me more!!! how fvcked up is that?

Would you bang it?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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If you do bang someone from work it does have to be just the one person. If you start banging everybody at work... get ready for some real drama.
 

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lanba said:
If you do bang someone from work it does have to be just the one person. If you start banging everybody at work... get ready for some real drama.
Listen to these words. I meet alot of women at work so it's hard for me to say "don't shiit where you eat." But what you're doing is backing up a cement truck full of crap and just filling the office with foul smelling stools...:moon:
 

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SgtSplacker said:
Listen to these words. I meet alot of women at work so it's hard for me to say "don't shiit where you eat." But what you're doing is backing up a cement truck full of crap and just filling the office with foul smelling stools...:moon:
lol. well this girl knows i'm seducing others. in fact when i innocently asked who she reeled off everyone except who i was gaming.
 

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Son,

If your job puts food on your table and a roof over your head and will do so for the foreseeable future, do not jeopardize it over poon. Go out somewhere else and find women. And if women know what you are doing and they don't like it, you might want to expect a firing or harassment suite. Be smarter.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ok. no more poon at work. to be honest i have a bad feeling about it anyway. i can't keep them off me though. like beating them off with a sh1tty stick.
 
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