"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Girl at work is a sure thing...but I'm not so sure

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So there's girl at work who i've been flirting with. Went out last friday and made out although we didn't bang.

Thing is she is now making overt signs. We work together late shifts and tonight she even asked me to come her way home rather than mine.

She's tall (5'9), slim with great legs and she's okay looking. Sometimes I look at her she's pretty hot, sometimes not - that kind of girl.

Thing is, I'm gaming another girl at work who is playing hard to get and is kind of more challenging. Also she can be a bit whiny and i'm afraid she might be the clingy type. So i'm not sure. I told her she can come to my place tomorrow night before heading home.

i've tried telling i'm not the kind of guy she should be interested in, that she should find someone better. that i'm broken etc but if anything that seems to make her want me more!!! how fvcked up is that?

Would you bang it?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If you do bang someone from work it does have to be just the one person. If you start banging everybody at work... get ready for some real drama.
 
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lanba said:
If you do bang someone from work it does have to be just the one person. If you start banging everybody at work... get ready for some real drama.
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Listen to these words. I meet alot of women at work so it's hard for me to say "don't shiit where you eat." But what you're doing is backing up a cement truck full of crap and just filling the office with foul smelling stools...:moon:
 
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SgtSplacker said:
Listen to these words. I meet alot of women at work so it's hard for me to say "don't shiit where you eat." But what you're doing is backing up a cement truck full of crap and just filling the office with foul smelling stools...:moon:
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lol. well this girl knows i'm seducing others. in fact when i innocently asked who she reeled off everyone except who i was gaming.
 
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Son,

If your job puts food on your table and a roof over your head and will do so for the foreseeable future, do not jeopardize it over poon. Go out somewhere else and find women. And if women know what you are doing and they don't like it, you might want to expect a firing or harassment suite. Be smarter.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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ok. no more poon at work. to be honest i have a bad feeling about it anyway. i can't keep them off me though. like beating them off with a sh1tty stick.
 
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