"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Girl at work is a sure thing...but I'm not so sure

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So there's girl at work who i've been flirting with. Went out last friday and made out although we didn't bang.

Thing is she is now making overt signs. We work together late shifts and tonight she even asked me to come her way home rather than mine.

She's tall (5'9), slim with great legs and she's okay looking. Sometimes I look at her she's pretty hot, sometimes not - that kind of girl.

Thing is, I'm gaming another girl at work who is playing hard to get and is kind of more challenging. Also she can be a bit whiny and i'm afraid she might be the clingy type. So i'm not sure. I told her she can come to my place tomorrow night before heading home.

i've tried telling i'm not the kind of guy she should be interested in, that she should find someone better. that i'm broken etc but if anything that seems to make her want me more!!! how fvcked up is that?

Would you bang it?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If you do bang someone from work it does have to be just the one person. If you start banging everybody at work... get ready for some real drama.
 

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lanba said:
If you do bang someone from work it does have to be just the one person. If you start banging everybody at work... get ready for some real drama.
Listen to these words. I meet alot of women at work so it's hard for me to say "don't shiit where you eat." But what you're doing is backing up a cement truck full of crap and just filling the office with foul smelling stools...:moon:
 

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SgtSplacker said:
Listen to these words. I meet alot of women at work so it's hard for me to say "don't shiit where you eat." But what you're doing is backing up a cement truck full of crap and just filling the office with foul smelling stools...:moon:
lol. well this girl knows i'm seducing others. in fact when i innocently asked who she reeled off everyone except who i was gaming.
 

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Son,

If your job puts food on your table and a roof over your head and will do so for the foreseeable future, do not jeopardize it over poon. Go out somewhere else and find women. And if women know what you are doing and they don't like it, you might want to expect a firing or harassment suite. Be smarter.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

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ok. no more poon at work. to be honest i have a bad feeling about it anyway. i can't keep them off me though. like beating them off with a sh1tty stick.
 
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