"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Girl at work avoiding me?

Smok1nAce

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so i causally talk with this girl at work, say hi, she always ask me "Im good how are you" same every time i ask. i small talk a little with her here and there, but nothing serious, still trying figure her out.
so today another co-worker ask "oh so i see we cant say hi" and i go back to her and kind of slap her on the back and say "hay___", i didnt mean to hit her hard but i kinda did, i wasnt thinking and felt like a jackass, she responded and said, "okaay" and laughed, i walked away, now the other girl who was standing right next to her is avoiding me. do you think my reputation with her is ruined? no im not ugly or anything a little shy but not social awkward.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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zinc4

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i honestly wish i didn't have to work with any females because they are so weird and complicated to deal with compared to a guy....i would much just prefer to meet them out in the regular world like i always do and not work with any...they are nothing but a major distraction at work..my job would be much better if all of my female co-workers were replaced with guys
 

foreverAFC

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dont touch them at work in any way whatsoever, this is asking for trouble
 

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zinc4 said:
i honestly wish i didn't have to work with any females because they are so weird and complicated to deal with compared to a guy....i would much just prefer to meet them out in the regular world like i always do and not work with any...they are nothing but a major distraction at work..my job would be much better if all of my female co-workers were replaced with guys
Agreed. I learned this the hard way. :rolleyes: Women don't belong at work, I've come to realise this more and more. Millions of years of evolution, and suddenly they are put in the same place as men doing the same job. Not only do they aim to create as much drama as possible, they also gossip behind everyones back and treat the job like they're in a reality show. If you do ONE mistake you can be sure that everyone in the place will know about it.
 
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