"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girl at work avoiding me?

Smok1nAce

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so i causally talk with this girl at work, say hi, she always ask me "Im good how are you" same every time i ask. i small talk a little with her here and there, but nothing serious, still trying figure her out.
so today another co-worker ask "oh so i see we cant say hi" and i go back to her and kind of slap her on the back and say "hay___", i didnt mean to hit her hard but i kinda did, i wasnt thinking and felt like a jackass, she responded and said, "okaay" and laughed, i walked away, now the other girl who was standing right next to her is avoiding me. do you think my reputation with her is ruined? no im not ugly or anything a little shy but not social awkward.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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zinc4

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i honestly wish i didn't have to work with any females because they are so weird and complicated to deal with compared to a guy....i would much just prefer to meet them out in the regular world like i always do and not work with any...they are nothing but a major distraction at work..my job would be much better if all of my female co-workers were replaced with guys
 

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dont touch them at work in any way whatsoever, this is asking for trouble
 

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zinc4 said:
i honestly wish i didn't have to work with any females because they are so weird and complicated to deal with compared to a guy....i would much just prefer to meet them out in the regular world like i always do and not work with any...they are nothing but a major distraction at work..my job would be much better if all of my female co-workers were replaced with guys
Agreed. I learned this the hard way. :rolleyes: Women don't belong at work, I've come to realise this more and more. Millions of years of evolution, and suddenly they are put in the same place as men doing the same job. Not only do they aim to create as much drama as possible, they also gossip behind everyones back and treat the job like they're in a reality show. If you do ONE mistake you can be sure that everyone in the place will know about it.
 
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