"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girl at work avoiding me?

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Smok1nAce

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so i causally talk with this girl at work, say hi, she always ask me "Im good how are you" same every time i ask. i small talk a little with her here and there, but nothing serious, still trying figure her out.
so today another co-worker ask "oh so i see we cant say hi" and i go back to her and kind of slap her on the back and say "hay___", i didnt mean to hit her hard but i kinda did, i wasnt thinking and felt like a jackass, she responded and said, "okaay" and laughed, i walked away, now the other girl who was standing right next to her is avoiding me. do you think my reputation with her is ruined? no im not ugly or anything a little shy but not social awkward.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i honestly wish i didn't have to work with any females because they are so weird and complicated to deal with compared to a guy....i would much just prefer to meet them out in the regular world like i always do and not work with any...they are nothing but a major distraction at work..my job would be much better if all of my female co-workers were replaced with guys
 
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dont touch them at work in any way whatsoever, this is asking for trouble
 
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zinc4 said:
i honestly wish i didn't have to work with any females because they are so weird and complicated to deal with compared to a guy....i would much just prefer to meet them out in the regular world like i always do and not work with any...they are nothing but a major distraction at work..my job would be much better if all of my female co-workers were replaced with guys
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Agreed. I learned this the hard way. :rolleyes: Women don't belong at work, I've come to realise this more and more. Millions of years of evolution, and suddenly they are put in the same place as men doing the same job. Not only do they aim to create as much drama as possible, they also gossip behind everyones back and treat the job like they're in a reality show. If you do ONE mistake you can be sure that everyone in the place will know about it.
 
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