"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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vonbock

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Met a girl at a wedding along with her sister. She is 30 years, never been married. After the wedding, she, her sister, me and my relatives went to a club and stayed out until the wee hours of the morning.
1st, is a girl at 30 years old and still clubbing have issues? I thought most are trying to settle down at that age
2nd she gave me her number and I left a message once, if she doens't return the call should I just toss the number?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'll call once, if no answer leave a voicemail and that's that...no more calling unless she calls you back first.
 
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30 is not too old to go to clubs, welcome to 70% of Chicago. The other 30% will be there in five years. Just because they go to clubs doesn't mean they are not looking to settle down, actually. My neighbors are both getting up there but club all the time, and they're bonafide hotties, along with all their friends. 30 is starting to be the youngest people get married nowadays. I'm 25 and I only know like 3 married couples. Most of my friends are not in serious relationships, even.

As for the chica, if she doesn't return your message, maybe try once more like a week later, just incase there were technical difficulties. But after that, the ball is in her court.
 
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